"What will you do when you grow up?" It is a question that surely many children have heard and heard, if not all. However, although it is theoretically innocent, it can negatively influence the professional future of children because it induces the idea that they can have only one job in their life, thus being able to restrict their dreams.
Moreover, at present the labor market is in a continuous change and until today's children will become adults it will most likely change even more (the influence of the internet is very gratifying in this regard, robotization, etc.), which it means that there is a greater likelihood that an adult will have different jobs throughout life.
So, instead of the classic "What do you want to do when you're big?", We can use other variants to stimulate their internal analysis on this topic and increase their chances of doing exactly what they like in the future, or as close to what they like, and not necessarily one thing.
What would you like to learn more about?
Most parents want their children to learn well and finish a college well. It is a natural thing, however, a great impediment to the professional success of children is that parents are still largely set to the old style of "good at learning", which means having high marks in all subjects. This conception often prevents children from excelling in certain educational disciplines and so they are also very good in the later trades / professions, based on the preferred disciplines.
Look closely at him and ask him periodically what he would like to learn in addition to what he is already learning.
Whether your child wants to know more about things studied in kindergarten / school or things outside of school (such as cars, planets, or cartoons), help him discover as much information as possible.
If you find that he is interested in a particular topic or subject, it is very important to let him focus on what he prefers. Later, if he does what he likes at work, he will be a happy man from a professional point of view.
Like who you want to be, who inspires you?
Regardless of your child's answer to this question (it wants to be that lady pediatrician, educating lady, uncle who is a computer scientist, etc.) you should always consider developing such an answer, to help raise awareness. many of the ways in which a man can develop, as well as to help him get to know himself better, to realize his desires and aspirations (why he likes that person, etc.)
Also, it is your duty to explain the advantages but also the disadvantages of a job (better or less paid, for the long term future or not), but try not to convey to him neither your unfulfilled wishes, nor your fears, for not to negatively influence it.
What problems would you like to solve from the ones you observe in the world?
Last but not least, future generations will have to find solutions to many problems that already exist around the world. Maybe your child wants to get involved in reducing pollution, in protecting animals or in the problem of low wages in Romania.
Therefore, when you happen to have a problem, try to talk to your child about it (obviously the explanations should be for his level) and ask him how he would proceed to bring about changes for good (even if the solutions are he will not be on the scale of reality, the fact that he puts his mind to his contribution is beneficial in discovering his curiosities, inclinations, abilities).
And, even though the current choices will not be the adult one for a future career, with such a question has a higher chance of developing on more planes, which later will help him to fulfill more dreams, such as he would be a researcher, a teacher and an activist.
It is very important for the little ones to think about what they will do when they are adults, to dream about their future, to make their plans, and it is equally important not to put barriers on them. Let them think creatively and help them with questions like the ones above.
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